Let me ask you a question: Right now how do you feel about your life, your business or the job that you have? Do you feel happy? Sad? Anxious? Depressed? or even (gasp!) Joyous? This subject has been coming up a lot for me personally lately and I thought I might share some insight that may help you if you are going through the “weeds”.
We all hear things like “Stay positive and think positively” or “Say your affirmations and practice the Law Of Attraction and your world will get better” and it does – doesn’t it?
“IT IS SUPER EASY TO BE POSITIVE WHEN EVERYTHING IS GOING WELL IN YOUR LIFE & MONEY IS ROLLING IN. IT’S A WHOLE DIFFERENT BALLGAME WHEN YOUR WORLD IS FALLING APART (You hate your job, you need money desperately and you see no options in sight). WHEN YOUR PHYSICAL WORLD LOOKS BAD, YOU NEED TO BELIEVE NOT BY SIGHT BUT BY FAITH!”
What I have told you in the above quote is one of the many keys to life and it is one of the hardest to learn -> or is it? I learned something very valuable not long ago that I would like to share with you. Perhaps no one has ever taken the time to offer you some guidance and more importantly steps that you can really use in your day-to-day life that will help you immediately – this will.
We all have bills to pay and most of Americans have jobs that they hate, in fact it is estimated that 90% of all working people HATE THEIR JOB. That is a lot of people that are going to work everyday HATING what they do. I was in that category for a long time so I understand how you feel if this is where you are today. I also understand what it is like to have to use credit cards and how stressful it can be when creditors are blowing up your phone every fifteen minutes. IT’S TERRIBLE!!! On the outside of this equation, things look pretty bad, this is the physical realm that we live in. However, you have a very important choice to make if this is where you are in your life. You can either A) Accept where you are, put your head in the sand, never answer your phone and “carry on” as if nothing is wrong (when everything inside of you screams HELP ME!!!) or B) You can manifest changes in your life literally from the inside out by changing what you see.
Step #1: Don’t believe anything you see. The most important first step you can take is to NOT believe what you physically see in front you. That low balance in your checkbook don’t believe it. The feeling that you are trapped, stuck and can’t get out – don’t believe it. You must look at your life with fresh eyes and start VISUALIZING THE LIFE YOU TRULY WANT. A crucial point here is the life you truly want, not the life your spouse wants, not the life your parents want – the one you truly want.
Step #2: Believe that what you want is already waiting for you. Whatever you desire in life has already been created (or else why would you desire it) and is waiting for you to bring it into your realm. For example, let’s say that you want to manifest a better job, a job that you really love and would do for free because it’s so wonderful. That job is already in existence and you need to BELIEVE that is there waiting for you to claim it.
“The Key is to believe it is there & that you can & are claiming it.”
Step #3: Visualize every detail of what you want. Bring into your existence what you want by visualizing it in as many details as possible. If you want to drive a new Bentley, think about how you would feel sliding into the driver’s seat. What would the car smell like? What would the B on the stick shift look like? What color is the car and where are you going in it? How would you feel driving a the car of your dreams around town and how much happiness would that give you?
Step #4: Allow what you want to come into your life. This is where many people fall short – they never allow and ENCOURAGE what they want to come into their life. You need to say the words “I allow and am ready to receive that new job (or fill in the blank) that will make me very happy. I allow this or something greater to come into my life and I RECEIVE IT unconditionally.”
These four steps combined will state your intentions, show the Universe exactly what you want (you must be clear) and allow it into your world. The Universe will provide as long as you do your part and visualize it, allow it in and let go of what it looks like.
Try out the steps I have outlined above and let me know how it works for you. I would love to hear your thoughts.